In the lush, verdant landscapes of Manipur, a state nestled in the northeastern corner of India, a young girl named Mangte Chungneijang Mary Kom embarked on a journey that would defy societal norms and etch her name into the annals of sporting history.
Mary Kom: The Champion Who Redefined Women’s Boxing
Born on March 1, 1982, in the humble village of Kangathei, Mary Kom’s early life was steeped in simplicity and hard work. Her parents, Mangte Tonpa Kom and Mangte Akham Kom, were tenant farmers who toiled tirelessly to provide for their children. From a tender age, Mary exhibited an innate athleticism, dabbling in sports like volleyball, football, and athletics during her school years. However, it was boxing—a sport dominated by men—that would become her true calling.
The Beginning of a Legendary Career
The spark that ignited Mary’s passion for boxing was lit by the remarkable success of fellow Manipuri boxer Dingko Singh, who clinched a gold medal at the 1998 Asian Games. Inspired by his achievement, Mary resolved to step into the boxing ring, a decision that was met with skepticism and resistance from her conservative community. Undeterred, she moved to Imphal to train under the tutelage of M. Narjit Singh, a renowned boxing coach. Her determination was palpable, and she immersed herself in rigorous training, often facing financial constraints and societal prejudices. Reflecting on her early struggles, Mary once remarked,
“Even when I went for the Nationals, my shoes were tattered—not that I let it bother me.”
Dominating the World Stage—Six-Time World Champion
Mary’s ascent in the boxing world was meteoric. In 2000, she clinched the Best Boxer Award at the First State Level Invitation Women’s Boxing Championship in Manipur. Her international debut came in 2001 at the Second AIBA Women’s World Boxing Championship in Scranton, USA, where she secured a silver medal in the 48 kg category.
This achievement marked the beginning of a stellar career that would see her dominate the world of women’s boxing. She went on to become a six-time world champion, winning gold medals at the AIBA Women’s World Boxing Championships in:
- 2002 – Antalya, Turkey (48 kg)
- 2005 – Podolsk, Russia (46 kg)
- 2006 – New Delhi, India (46 kg)
- 2008—Ningbo City, China (46 kg)
- 2010 – Bridgetown, Barbados (48 kg)
- 2018 – New Delhi, India (48 kg)
Her dominance extended to the Asian continent, where she secured gold medals at the Asian Women’s Boxing Championship in 2003, 2005, 2010, 2012, and 2017. Additionally, she won gold at the 2014 Asian Games and the 2018 Commonwealth Games.
Historic Olympic Glory
One of her most significant achievements was at the 2012 London Olympics, where women’s boxing was introduced for the first time. Competing in the 51 kg flyweight category, Mary advanced to the semifinals, ensuring a bronze medal. This accomplishment elevated her status and brought global attention to women’s boxing in India. Reflecting on her journey, she once said,
“People used to say that boxing is for men and not for women, and I thought I will show them someday. I promised myself, and I proved myself.”
Balancing Motherhood and Boxing
Balancing her roles as a mother of three and a professional athlete required immense resilience. After the birth of her twins in 2007, she returned triumphantly to boxing, silencing critics who doubted her comeback. Her autobiography, “Unbreakable,” published in 2013, offers an intimate look into her struggles and triumphs.
Beyond the ring, Mary Kom’s contributions have been widely recognized. She was nominated as a member of the Rajya Sabha (India’s upper house of Parliament) in 2016, allowing her to advocate for sports and women’s empowerment on a national platform.
Her life and career inspired the 2014 Bollywood biopic “Mary Kom,” starring Priyanka Chopra, bringing her story to a broader audience.
Awards and Recognitions
Mary’s accolades include some of India’s highest civilian and sporting honors:
- 🏆 Padma Vibhushan (2020)—India’s second-highest civilian award for her contribution to sports.
- 🏅 Padma Bhushan (2013) – India’s third-highest civilian award for her excellence in boxing.
- 🏅 Padma Shri (2006) – India’s fourth-highest civilian award recognizing her achievements in sports.
- 🥇 Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna Award (2009) – India’s highest sporting honor for her outstanding performance in boxing.
- 🥇 Arjuna Award (2003) – Prestigious Indian sports award for her excellence in boxing.
Continuing Her Legacy
Aspiring young boxers training at Mary Kom's Boxing Academy in Manipur
Her relentless pursuit of excellence continued as she qualified for the 2020 Tokyo Olympics at the age of 38, though she faced a narrow defeat in the pre-quarterfinals. Her participation underscored her commitment to the sport and her nation.
Mary Kom’s legacy transcends boxing. She stands as a beacon of perseverance, breaking societal and gender norms. Her journey from a remote village to global boxing arenas epitomizes the power of determination.
Through her academy, the Mary Kom Regional Boxing Foundation in Manipur, she mentors young talents, ensuring that her passion and dedication inspire future generations.
A Lasting Inspiration
Reflecting on her journey, Mary once said,
“People used to say that boxing is for men and not for women, and I thought I will show them someday. I promised myself, and I proved myself.”
Her words resonate with countless individuals who face societal prejudices, inspiring them to challenge norms and pursue their passions.
Personal Life and Strength
Mary’s personal life has been a cornerstone of her strength. In 2005, she married K. Onler Kom, a supportive partner who stood by her through thick and thin. The couple is blessed with three sons, including twins born in 2007.
Balancing motherhood and a demanding boxing career was no small feat. Yet, Mary managed to return to the ring with renewed vigor after each childbirth, a testament to her resilience and dedication. She often credits her family for being her pillar of strength, stating,
“People refer to Onler as ‘Mary’s husband,’ but I know that behind Mary’s success, there is Onler.”
A Lasting Legacy
Her autobiography, “Unbreakable,” published in 2013, offers an intimate glimpse into her life, chronicling her journey from the rice fields of Manipur to the global boxing arenas. The book delves into her struggles, triumphs, and the relentless spirit that propelled her forward.
In recognition of her contributions to sports and society, Mary was nominated as a member of the Rajya Sabha in 2016. This platform allowed her to advocate for sports development, women’s empowerment, and the Northeast region of India.
The Indian film industry also paid tribute to her remarkable journey. The 2014 Bollywood biopic “Mary Kom” highlighted her challenges, victories, and indomitable spirit that defined her journey. The lead role was played by Indian Actress Priyanka Chopra.
A Legacy That Inspires Generations
Mary Kom’s life story is a testament to perseverance, passion, and determination. She has redefined women’s boxing, proving that with unwavering dedication and resilience, one can achieve greatness, irrespective of background or circumstances. Her legacy continues to inspire generations, making her a true icon in Indian sports history.
-Edited By: Rajshree Upadhyaya
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